Update on the Kelly Household

Well it seems these days that I still don't have enough hours in the day to keep up with everything. That statement kind of makes me chuckle because to be honest I have no idea how I kept up with all of this while I was working!

Things here are ok. The 19th will mark three months since I have worked and to be honest I have enjoyed being at home. I am really trying hard to not stress about the ramifications of my not having a job though they are becoming more apparent each and every day as we are now officially living paycheck to paycheck again. The job market for lack of a better a word sucks right now. Each day I hit the various work web sites and place my resume and fill out applications. So far I have only had about 4 interviews and so far none have turned out to be anything. The one very promising job interview I had we have decided that I will not take if it is offered to me. The pay is not near enough and it is only a part time position and hence it will not benefit us at all. So the search continues. I have one job interview set up for Tuesday of this week and one job that I applied to and went in and did testing for an am hoping to get a call about an interview for that this week. God knows our needs and already has the answer so I am trying ever so hard to hang on to that and wait, patiently, at the feet of Jesus.

I miss MY job though and find myself yearning for it. It is something that I simply cannot get out of my system. My mind and heart know what I "would be" doing if I still had that job and there are days when I simply let a few tears flow about the fact that it will never be again. Honestly I didn't expect it to be this hard to "get over it" but it is. I miss every aspect of being there each day and I miss my "family" there very much.

This week I will complete a Beth Moore study on the Psalms of Ascent that our ladies have been doing at church. I love Beth Moore and this study has been totally awesome. This is probably the first study I have done in years that I can say I have been able to dedicate to 100% and it has been a true blessing. The group of ladies that I was placed with for our small group seemed a bit strange to me at first but it has turned out to be such a blessing. I will be sad to see it end this week. When I do complete it though I have decided to dive in head first into the Beth Moore book called "Get Out of that Pit". I have had this book for a while now but haven't really sat down and gotten into it. Beth has spoken of it several times through the videos in this current study and I feel certain that God wants me to dangle my feet in that book for a while.

Good news: Nick was able to work a few days last week with a man from our church and he really enjoyed it. He is praying that there might be some more work for him through that man. We think he has decided to go to school to be an EMT. For a long time he talked about Fire College but seems to have decided on EMT. This week we will begin the process of getting all the details and starting to apply for needs in the financial area. I think he has finally decided it is time to "grow up". That leaves me happy and a bit sad as they are all growing so quickly.

Mandy is preparing to make her third trip to China this summer and is excited about that. Our Pastor and his wife and children will be leaving in July for China as they are moving there to teach English. God is amazing in what he is doing in them and I don't think it will be long before my own sweet daughter makes that journey herself. Pray for her in that area as I know that is her desire but there are some hurdles that must be gone over before that can happen. Again, I have mixed emotions about it, but I am ok because this is what I raised her for and if God wants her in China she must go.

Sammi is progressing through her junior year of High School. That means prom will be here before we know it, senior supplies will have to be ordered, senior pictures will be taken and then the fun begins of the senior year in general.

Goodness where have the years gone?

Tim and I are doing good. I think he kind of likes having me home during the day. He finds me at home rested and not stressed in the evenings! (well most evenings anyway) We are blessed that he works in an industry that is not feeling too much of the economic strains though they have made cutbacks just like everyone else. Of course nothing is sacred these days and one never knows if the job will still be there tomorrow.

I think that is about it for this update. Keep us in your prayers!

Stepping Up.....

Last night the ladies from our church began Beth Moore’s study called Stepping Up. It is a study into the Psalms of Ascent (Psalms 120-134). We simply did the introduction last night and wow is what I was left with.


Most of you know that I am recently unemployed and that has been a huge change for my life for many reasons. I have had no luck as of yet finding a job and I keep saying that I am simply waiting on God to show me what is next. Last night I began to think there is something more to this unemployment stage of my life.


So many times over the last many years I have embarked on studies, trying desperately to juggle work, home, kids, chores, church and bible study. Many times finding that my time in the Word takes a backseat to everything else that is going on around me. That’s not the way it is supposed to be at all. I have known that and realized it along the way but couldn’t really find a good balance to do the said study at that time with my whole heart like I should. It has probably caused me to miss out on many things and leaves me looking forward to going through some of those books and studies again to see what I missed out on.


In this study Beth has asked us that for the next 30 days we get on our faces, literally, before God each day. Not just in prayer, but getting right down our faces. This is not something I normally do but it is something I am going to do each day.


In the video presentation last night Beth Moore said this: “Whatever we are going through, we aren’t staying there”! Amen to that. Now while this may make perfect sense to some of you it wasn’t something I had thought of with all that is going on around me. There are so many “things” that are going on right now, so many changes and in reality it can be kind of scary. We tend to get “comfortable” with where we are but on the inside we feel “stuck” and even a little down if we are honest. I don’t want to be stuck or down and that is point of this study to get up.


Something else she said that I found very ironic in our current situation, not just our own within our family but in our country as a whole was this: “In God’s economy the way UP is DOWN”. No matter what our circumstances are either within our homes or for our country as a whole perhaps we do need to get down before we can get up. Not down as in the value of the dollar but down on our faces before God.


Beth painted a beautiful pictures of the stairs leading from the Court of Women in The Temple up to Nicanor Gate of us standing at the bottom of the stairs and God standing there with His hands open waiting for up to STEP UP!


So this morning I got up determined that I was going to do this right. I did get on my face before God this morning and in the quiet of my home I spent some great time in the Word and going through day one of this amazing study. As I worked through today’s lesson it was amazing. One line from today’s lesson states: “Sometimes we don’t know why we’re on a certain road with God until miles have made their way to the soles of our feet”. It’s true I do not know why God has me at this crossroad in my life and maybe, just maybe a few miles need to be put on the soles of my feet in order for me to see what is next. I can’t help but think that maybe I am supposed to be at home right now to give my full attention to this study. God has something for me. I know He does!


So I have begun my journey on the Psalms of Ascent and I am so excited to see where it is going to lead. One step at a time, one day at a time and holding on so tightly to God’s had as I walk. God doesn’t make mistakes but we do, however, one last thing that Beth Moore said in the video last night was something someone had told her: “Remember you’re not good enough to mess God up.” Praise God for that!

Inauguration 2009

What a day filled with pomp and circumstance we had as a nation today. No matter whom you voted for in the election you have to admit today was quite the day. Personally I think all the hoopla was a little much. I mean we are a country that is in financial turmoil and yet it was ok to spend the countless amount of dollars that were spent over the last several days. Please know that I fully understand that this is the way the new incoming president is ushered in and that many would have felt it was an insult to Obama had we not had all the ceremony today. I simply don’t see the justification and spending that kind of money when tomorrow they will be back at it trying to figure out a financial way to turn this countries finances around.


I found many of the commentaries and statements that I heard today and many of the things that I saw today very interesting.


On the TODAY show Matt Lauer was speaking with Collin Powell and Matt Lauer made the statement that “aren’t we putting a lot of faith in one man” to which Collin Powell said yes. I found this interesting because it is true. So many people are putting so much faith and trust in Barack Obama that it is scary; a lot of these people are Christians. We are not supposed to put our faith in any one except Jesus Christ and when we don’t good things do not happen. What I saw today were thousands of people standing for hours upon hours in the freezing cold to catch just a quick glimpse of our new President. What I saw today were people who were acting as worshipers to a man who puts his pants on the same way we all do. In many ways I think people are, without knowing it, setting the man up to fail. Why? Simple because if he is unable to accomplish the things that people seem to think he can accomplish he will, in their eyes perhaps become a failure or be called a liar.


So many times today we heard about “history” being made. Indeed today is day for the history books for several reasons. We did indeed watch the first man with an African American heritage be sworn in as commander and chief. There were more people present today for the Inauguration then ever before. One lady I saw interviewed was in Washington when Martin Luther King made his speech and she was there today as well and said today the dream came true and that she wished MLK had been here to see it. She is right today his dream did come true and we all witnessed it.


Tonight on the NBC Nightly news they showed the reactions from around the world today and they are all riding high on the hopes that Obama will fix things and make things “right”.


Sadly for as many people who are excited about this newness in our government and country there are just as many who are not excited and who are not happy with the fact that Barack Obama has been elected.


So where am I going with all of this? The truth of the matter is that God allowed this man to be elected as President of the United States of America. The truth is that we are called to pray for this man and for those who are in our government. The truth is that Barack Obama is not a god or a king and is no different from any other man in this world. He is not perfect; he is a husband, a son, a brother and father. He will make good choices and he will make bad choices. He will have good days and he will have bad days. He is like each one of us. The truth is we should esteem no man higher than God and we must remain steadfast in the fact that our God is in control and that the things that happen will only happen because our God allows them.


So as we go forward in the days ahead I pray that we will all remember who we are and who we serve. I hope that we will all take time to pray for our leaders and for our country. And I pray that we will all remember that what we do for the kingdom is of the most importance.


I have a calendar on my desk that has verses, thoughts and quotes on it and today’s is a reminder of what we must remember no matter what:


Forgive me, Father, for the times when I am anxious. You have promised to care of all my needs.

2009...Changes Ahead

Well here we are, 2009 and it’s been a month today since I left Abundant Funds. My last day there was December 19 and it was a very emotional day for me, as I knew it would be. That entire week was very hard. It isn’t easy closing out something that has been such a big part of who you are for the last ten years. Yes there were tears, at least a bucket of them as I prepared to leave that day. Opening the door to leave I turned one last time and then exited. I cried all the way home. It’s kind of strange to not have all of that on my mind everyday, not having to think about what has to be done tomorrow or what deadline needs to be met. Yes, I miss it but I am trusting God to show me what HE wants me to do.

So far looking for a job has not been a fun thing. I have posted my resume on several different sites and so far the real only things I have heard were sales jobs. Funny thing is I don’t do sales. I am not a salesperson, never have been and don’t plan to be. There isn’t a single thing in my resume that would lead anyone to think that I have done sales or would be interested; yet I get calls and emails for sales jobs weekly. Other than that the only one nibble that I have had has turned out to be nothing I am afraid. Companies do not want you to come in and fill out applications for the most part. You either need to email, fax or apply through the company website. All of those options are fine since it means I am not burning gas up to go around to all these places.

I supposed I would be depressed at the lack of responses if the job market wasn’t what it is today. There are so many people out there that are looking for work and more and more are losing jobs everyday. I read last week that over 20,000 people in the state of Florida alone applied for unemployment in one day, one day that is unthinkable. So the search goes on.

In all honesty though I am enjoying being at home to some extent. It is nice to be able to do “chores” through the week and not have to do them all on Saturday. Weekends were not very enjoyable for me since usually my Saturday was full of chores and grocery shopping and then Sunday was church, it always felt like my days off were filled with as much work as my workweek was. It is nice to be able to enjoy putting together a meal again instead of hurrying home each night to throw something together. The laundry is generally caught up now as well. So this whole “no job” thing really is not bad except for the loss of income and the fact that I am not around the people I have grown to love so much over the years.

But on to other things…….

So 2009 has already proved that it will be yet another year of change. A week ago Sunday we found out that Pastor Duane, Amy and the boys will be leaving us this year. They will be moving to China to teach English. That is a huge move for them and I am so happy that God has opened this door to them. China has been a huge part of our lives for almost three years now. This summer will make the third year that we have sent a team there to teach English. I am so excited for them and for the doors that this will open. Yet on the other hand it is a bit bittersweet for me as well because I know this will increase the love that my oldest daughter has for the people of China. So we shall see what the next months hold for all of us.

Of course our country is about to undergo a big change tomorrow with the Inauguration of Barack Obama as the president of the United States. I think the days ahead will be interesting as we see what direction God is going to take our country in. We should all remember that God is in control and we are called to pray for our leaders.

So that is my update for now. I am going to try and be better about blogging.

If you think about it please pray for our family as we continue to readjust to the cut in income. Pray for God to show me what HE would have me to do. Pray for our son Nick who is almost 19 and is looking for a job as well.

Thanks and I will talk to you soon.

Our Children

Tim and I have been blessed with three children. Amanda is 26, Nicholas is 18 (almost 19) and Samantha just turned 17. It is hard to believe that time has gone by as quickly as it has gone by. I wanted to share you with you pictures that they had done for us for Christmas this year.

Just A Thought

It seems like every person I know is going through something fairly major right now in their life. There are people, like myself looking for work, there is my best friend in the battle of her life with cancer, there are people I love beyond measure that are making choices that may not be good for them, there are teenagers and young adults struggling, there is a family we know who has to say goodbye to their daughter this week after she passed away on New Years Day. But with all of that I keep reminding myself that in uncertain time God remains certain. I am so thankful for the message we had a few weeks ago about resting in Him because I sure have needed that reminder a few times over lately.

I have this calendar on my desk and it has bible verses and some quotes on it and today's is from Max Lucado. Funny thing, I flipped it early this morning but didn't really read it until a few minutes ago and it just really was what I needed. Here it is because I wanted to share it because I know so many of us are going through tough times right now....

"Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. To these I commit my day. If I succeed, I will give thanks. If I fail, I will seek His grace. And then, when this day is done, I will place my head on my pillow and rest." - Max Lucado

I am praying for all of you and I love you all!